Add <~cond> condition modifier for tightly coupled services

Conditions in Finit are dependencies: if A is asserted, service B is
allowed to run.  When A goes through FLUX (e.g., upstream reloads),
dependents are PAUSED and then simply resumed when the condition is
reasserted -- this is the correct behavior for barrier-style deps
like <pid/syslogd>.

However, some setups have tightly coupled services where dependents
must be reloaded/restarted when an upstream service reloads, not just
resumed.  E.g., the FRR routing stack on Infix OS:

    netd <pid/mgmtd> ← zebra <!pid/netd> ← {staticd,ripd} <!pid/zebra>

When netd reloads (SIGHUP), zebra and its dependents must be restarted
to pick up the new configuration.

The new '~' condition prefix marks a dependency as flux-sensitive:

    service <!~pid/netd> name:zebra ...

When the upstream condition goes FLUX and returns to ON, the dependent
is reloaded (SIGHUP) or restarted (noreload '!') instead of merely
resumed.  Transitivity follows naturally through the condition chain.

Closes #416
Closes #476

Signed-off-by: Joachim Wiberg <troglobit@gmail.com>

src/svc.h

@@ -146,6 +146,7 @@ typedef struct svc {
 	int            starting;       /* ... waiting for pidfile to be re-asserted */
 	int	       runlevels;
 	int            sighup;	       /* This service supports SIGHUP :) */
+	int            flux_reload;    /* Propagate reload from dependency, '~' prefix */
 	int	       forking;	       /* This is a service/sysv daemon that forks, wait for it ... */
 	svc_block_t    block;	       /* Reason that this service is currently stopped */
 	char           cond[MAX_COND_LEN];