The pointer-reversing walk in destroy_container() avoids the call stack but
moves a value around for every container it visits. Recurse for the first
recursion_depth_limit() levels instead - no allocation, no thread-local, a
bounded frame - and hand anything deeper to the walk. Destroy twitter
0.49 -> 0.36 ms, citm 0.80 -> 0.74 ms (3.12.0: 0.47 / 1.00).
Signed-off-by: Niels Lohmann <mail@nlohmann.me>